Dulip & Rajpal de Silva brothers... both belong to the Post Hayman Era at Gurutalawa.... they have been very generous to host an annual fellowship for the collogues during their time in Gurutalawa....
This year the fellowship was held at Panadura their hometown and the night was dedicated to felicitate Mr. A C M Laffir the games Prefect in Gurutalawa.
The below speech was delivered by Bandula Vithanage reminiscing the boarding life and of Mr. Laffir ....the event was a success and attended by many ...
Ladies & Gentlemen
Guru days
We have gathered here today at the invitation of Dulip and
Rajpal brothers… their second fellowship to a group of Gurutalawa Thomians….
who share the same interests in being students of the immediate post-Hayman
Era. Dr Hayman left Gurutalawa in 1963
all of us here today belong to the 1964 -1974 era. The school continued to run
on the guidelines and traditions laid down by its founders Dr Hayman and Fr
Foster during this period.
Gurutalawa was a special school being the first-ever outbound
school in the country. We were all in this school when there was ample time for
activities that worked like clockwork, unlike today’s child who is fighting for
time to get himself organized for a day’s work.
There was time to roam about the countryside on weekends…. Go
hiking to Horton Plains, climb Thotupola Kanda and Kirigal Poththa. Go camping
to Yala and Lahugala during the Holidays. We were a set of students that grew
up with nature. We saw how the trees in the orchard blossomed with the seasonal
fruits. We knew of the months the mandarins in the orchard could be raided. We
knew almost all the migrant birds that came into the orchard during a
particular period.
There was time for mischief-making and there was even time
for punishment when caught …. We had time to write 100/ 200 lines for the
prefects. There was time set aside for detention at 11:00 in the classrooms on
Sunday when even the duty master was also punished indirectly having to
supervise our punishment.
It was a time when we only had to act to the timetable laid
down from the time, we woke up to Bell Simons wake up bell until lights out
when we retired for the night again when Bell Simon would lock us up in the
dormitories.
Our soiled linen was taken care of by the school, Timely haircuts
were organized by the school, Mending our footwear was also the responsibility
of the school while filling our ever-hungry tummies was the primary task of Mrs.
Jayawickrama.
The school took a complete change by 1977 when it had to introduce a primary section when the Post Hayman Era to which we belonged came to an end. Therefore, we happen to be the last generation brought up in the traditions of the Hayman Era.
Gurutalawa in the Post Hayman Era continued with its unique
traditions thanks to a dedicated staff who also resided with the students being
boarders in the same school partaking of the same meals enjoying the same
limited resources and going through the hardships during the cold monsoon rains
when we all got ducked coming to the dining hall from nightly prep in the
classrooms. But then it was all fun and that was the way in this outbound
boarding school in the Uva hills.
Dedication to Mr. Laffir
The school had a committed set of old boys who took to
teaching as a profession and as administrators in running the school. Among
them, Mr. A K Chapman was an authority in the English medium section while he
was also the caretaker Headmaster. Mr. O. E. J. de Soyza also a pioneer student
taught English. Mr. Benjamin Fernando and Mr. John Marasinghe took up the
administrative duties of the school being the Bursar and the Headmaster’s
Secretary. Mr. A C M Laffir a distinguished old boy was the Games Prefect. Mr. Kadurugamuwa
too later joined the Sinhala medium teachers.
Further to these old boys who continued from the Hayman Era.
There were Mr. J. de S. Jayasinghe, Mr. Chinnaiah, Mr. Kularatne, and Mr.
Amarasinghe, who were not-old boys but dedicated their whole life to the school
continuing their service from the Hayman Era.
There were other noteworthy staff who joined the school
during the post-Hayman Era who did devote their life and time to Gurutalawa. We
cannot forget Mr. S.K. Gananamuththu, Mr. Lekamge, Mr. Pathiratne, Mr.
Nirodhiwardane, Mr. Cyril Perera, Mr. Bandusena, Mr. Chanmugam, Mr. Dhanaraj, Mr.
Fassy, Mr. Geethal Mendis, Mr. Jayaraj, Mr. O N Peris, Mr. Gray, Mr. Sunil
Premathilake, Mr. Hubert, Mr. Tulin Ratnam, Mr. Dharmasiri, Mr. Punchi Banda, Mr.
David, Mr. S. P. Dharmawardane, Mr. S. S. Selvendran, Mr. Thayagaraja and Mr. Ratnasingham
are fondly remembered. The only lady teacher then was Mrs. Loreta Jayasinghe. Headmaster
Mr. Frank Jayasinghe’s wife who substituted to Mr. O E J de Soyza who left
college.
However tonight we are here to commemorate the services of one staff member who was absent in the classroom but was most actively present on the playing field. He is non-other than the only Games Perfect the school has ever produced... Mr. A C M Laffir.
A. C. M. Laffir was born on the 28th of October 1932 in
Nawalapitiya. He had his primary and middle school education in Jaffna and
later joined S Thomas’ Gurutalawa in the year 1945.
While at school he was an average student in academia but an
exceptional one on the playing field. A star-class football player; an
"Ambipedal", one who could use both his legs equally good in kicking
and passing. Hockey was his other favourite game and he played in a leading
position in both these field games and obtained College Colours. His other favoured
games were Squash and Badminton.
Mr. Laffir too fancied for a carrier in planting just as most
Gurutalawa boys did after their S.S.C Examination. But fate acted differently
for him. His coach and mentor Rev. Father Canon A J Foster requested him to
join the school and take charge of the sports at Gurutalawa. It was difficult
for him to turn down Father Foster’s request and he had to take the hard
decision to take charge of sport at Gurutalawa.
This short-statured gentleman in an open collar sport shirt with
a whistle cord round his neck would herd everyone to the playing field after
tea. Those preferring the racket games took up position at the respective
courts while the rest ended up on the grounds and took part in Hockey practices
and football practices until it was time to get back for a wash and evening
prep.
Rainy days when no field games were possible… it was cross-country
running… barefooted drenched in rain and
mud splashed from the dirt roads.
Mr. Laffir had the vision to produce the best hockey team in
the Uva Province. The initial preparation of his ambition with Sarth Serasinghe
leading the team had to be delayed for Sarath joined Ananada College and later
captained Sri Lanka. However, he did achieve his ambition by producing that super
undebatable team in the Uva Province in 1972.
Mr. Laffir continued to serve the school even after many of
his contemporaries had left the institution by 1989. However, he too could not
continue long, when he had to make allowances for his failing health. He was
diagnosed with terminal cancer and had to call an end to all his commitments at
Gurutalawa and come back home to Nawalapitiya. He passed away peacefully and
was laid to rest on the 26th of October 1994 in Nawalapitiya with a solemn
Janasa attended by the close family.
It was an early call, and he was only 62 years of age.
Today as a mark of respect and gratitude to this humble
gentleman who always sported a genuine smile and was loved by all…. Dulip and
Rajpal de Silva brothers would dedicate a trophy in memorial to be presented to
the Best Hockey Player of the year at the Annual Prize Giving.
(Call upon Dulip & Rajpal to hand over the trophy)
Esto Perpetua
Excellent description of Guru days and Mr Laffir! Totally agree. I am a Hayman era Gura Thomian! Esto Perpetua!
ReplyDeleteExcellent description of Guru days and Mr Laffir! I am a Hayman era Guru Thomian. Esto Perpetua!
ReplyDeleteMy Uncle Laffir, He Such A Great Calm Person He Loved Us Very Much And We Too Loved Him, On This Day I Pray For His soul And Grand Highest Jannatul Firdous, Amen.
ReplyDeleteWolied Ameen Musthakeem.
Great memories which struck lifelong in our mind. A remarkable man Mr. Laffer.
ReplyDeleteOMG , what a gorgeous event to cherish the beautiful memories. Every name mentioned therein brought enormous joy for the interaction we had with the dedicated sweetest people including Bell Simon & Haramanis . Mr Lafeer is a true Legend 🙏 Guyz lost with words for Organising this - Bravo Thomians👍
ReplyDeleteVery thoughtful and heartwarming . Esto-Perpetua. God bless everyone.
ReplyDeleteOh yes he pushed me to play soccer and I ended getting my colours in this discipline.
ReplyDeleteHe was a pleasant and lovable character. We all respected the gentleman.
Beautiful memories. Knew all the teachers and staff mentioned. Played many a sport in school. Mr. Lafir was instrumental in guiding us in many of these disciplines. A thorough gentleman
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